unchilding

1. verb

Removing a child from a parent; disowning.

There is no unfathering Christ, and there is no unchilding us. from C. H. Spurgeons His NameThe Everlasting Father (9 December 1866)

2. adjective

life-threatening, life-taking

Spins to the widow-making unchilding unfathering deeps. from Gerard Manley Hopkins The Wreck of the Deutschland (1883?)